About Us

Hey there!

My name is Julie Bill

I work as a relationship coach as well as write and speak about marriage and divorce. Let’s call it self-help or personal development without all of the cheesy bullshit that I hate about self-help and personal development.

I try to write and speak about relationships in ways that might have resonated with me a decade ago when my head was still inserted all of the way up my own ass. I do so in hopes that I might share effectively some of what I needed to know to succeed at marriage and be the kind of guy that I always wanted to be.

I’m not a doctor. I’m not an expert. I’m not particularly smart.

But some people say that the way I say things or write things helps them understand ideas and make sense of their personal relationships in ways they previously had not.

The things that destroy our relationships work like cancer. Like people who used to smoke a pack a day or work with asbestos on construction sites with little to no understanding of the dangers, I think most people want their romantic relationships and marriages to be happy and last forever, but end up getting sick from things they didn’t recognize as deadly. Some people come back from that. For others, by the time they detect the problem, it’s already too late.

I started this site because I didn’t want anyone to feel the shame, loneliness and despair that I felt when trying to fix what, to me, seemed like an impossible-to-save marriage. You are not alone. You are not a failure. You are not a bad person. Your life is not over. You deserve happiness and you can find it. I want you to know that. This is what else I’d like you to know:


So, happy you’re curious about working with me! One of the first ways I like to connect with people is through an Introductory Session.

In this session I get to dive in and learn more about you, where you’re at in your love life or relationships, what you want and how I can support you in getting there.

In this impactful call, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love (often you can’t see this for yourself because it’s in a blind spot), and I will answer your burning questions about why you’re having certain experiences with men, dating, or within your relationship.

If you’re ready to breakthrough in your love life now, then I’m ready for you. Simply apply and my team will get back to you with more information on how we can work together.

If you want a private counselling, then email [email protected] and we will set up a 1-1 private session via Skype or telephone.

Want to contact me for other reasons, then use the contact form here